Ok people, the truth Maui or Ohau(honolulu). And why?

I have always felt that the Honolulu area was too crowded, though Maui is rapidly becoming more crowded as tourism has expanded there exponentially. I actually prefer to go to Kona on the island of Hawaii, or possibly Kauai. But if give the choice between Honolulu or Maui, I would still choose Maui at this time, as the island is not as much of a city feel. Though the north shore of Oahu is better, than Honolulu.